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charlie | .....at some point. Am engaged now. There is something that worries me. I have a Venus sq Uranus and Neptune....and anything you can Google about these aspects is me. All of it! I am also ruled by Uranus by delineation....in second place comes Pluto... These are VERY strong forces within me, especially the Uranus! If I feel trapped I'm a GONER and there's no return after that. Is this a maturity "thing" or am I doomed?? I love him with more than my heart and beyond and I WANT everything that marriage and living together entails, incl the arguments....but Uranus....sigh |
starfairy | You definitely have some challenging Venus aspects. I think a lot depends on your partner, and your synastry with your partner. If he is the type who will give you a lot of space and freedom, perhaps you won't feel trapped. |
charlie | quote: Originally posted by starfairy: You definitely have some challenging Venus aspects. I think a lot depends on your partner, and your synastry with your partner. If he is the type who will give you a lot of space and freedom, perhaps you won't feel trapped.
He's 99% Air with an Earth singleton. Libra stellium, Aqua Moon. I have an Air singleton and I am VERY Air... |
cappy1277 | Lol then you hit the jackpot. Im sure you wouldn't have said yes if you had any doubt that you could be attached to someone. |
charlie | quote: Originally posted by cappy1277: Lol then you hit the jackpot. Im sure you wouldn't have said yes if you had any doubt that you could be attached to someone.
It's hard to explain!! It's something that happens in my brain and I can't seem to overcome it! It's like a "switch" and when it goes "on" I'm toast!
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cappy1277 | That's love lol |
charlie | No one understands me!!! See what I am saying? Bloody Uranus... |
YoursTrulyAlways | Stop worrying and just get married! I have Venus Conjunct Uranus and Venus Trine Uranus in Synastry. I have Venus Sextile Uranus in Composite. My natal Uranus is even in the 7th House of marriage, and Conjunct Pluto. Her Uranus Conjunct Pluto in the 4th House of home. None of this matters. We'll be celebrating our 20th anniversary. Let the haters be haters. Nothing and no one matters except you and him and you two together. The astrologers who talk smack - a lot of them can't even hold a successful marriage. Something to think about. |
cappy1277 | Because you are over rationalizing lol. Some things just are and just happen and some people are just meant to be...when it's like that, it's easy to keep going with it. Go with the flow of it all because if you don't, you might find or create a problem that never really existed to begin with. ❤❤❤ ------------------ "No dream is ever too small; no dream is ever too big." |
YoursTrulyAlways | ^^. Thank you twin sister. |
Jessica2407 | quote: Originally posted by charlie: It's hard to explain!! It's something that happens in my brain and I can't seem to overcome it! It's like a "switch" and when it goes "on" I'm toast!
I know whatcha mean uranus sq venus,mercury,sun,saturn,ascendant,trine moon. |
quinnlycanastro | I haven't got Venus in aspect to Uranus but I do have Sun sextile, and the moon is in opposition to Uranus. I'm forty this year ~ and still couldn't get married. I can't commit just for the sake of it and once I know that the relationship isn't going to last forever ~ I'm out. |
cappy1277 | You're welcome twin brother! Quinnly- I have venus in Aquarius, sun sextile Uranus and moon quincunx Uranus. I'm slowly giving up on the idea of ever being married myself. I hate to be stuck in a dead end relationship myself...I can usually intuit who will be in my life for a long time or at least who seems to be promising. Charlie- I totally understand you but being that I was giving you a piece of advice, I hope you understand what I was trying to say ❤ |
YoursTrulyAlways | Twin sister, would you like to put our charts together and have a look? |
cappy1277 | Give me the info and let's have a look see...I will start another thread so we won't take over Charlie's thread |
Sorcha | charlie, I get what you're saying. I'm not sure if you are more worried about getting in to that panic mode or how you might respond to that panic mode. Just a thought, if/when you feel the stirrings of that trapped feeling, just take the time you need (10 minutes, an hour, a day, whateves) and just breathe through it and ground yourself. I know how hokey that sounds but panic, regardless of its source, is still panic. It's fight or flight (well, in your case just flight) and simply bringing yourself back to a calm state will likely help you to put things back in to perspective. Also, congratulations!!! |
YoursTrulyAlways | quote: Originally posted by cappy1277: Give me the info and let's have a look see...I will start another thread so we won't take over Charlie's thread
I started a new thread in Personal Readings. Sorry about the thread cr4p, Charlie. |
charlie | *5hrs deep into Lotus position....is breathing in and out....* Thanks for kind words |
YoursTrulyAlways | Charlie, we're all rooting for you and I'll send you my prayers. Congratulations on finding the love of your life and look forward to a lifetime of happy moments together and a blessed union in eternity. |
charlie | quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Charlie, we're all rooting for you and I'll send you my prayers. Congratulations on finding the love of your life and look forward to a lifetime of happy moments together and a blessed union in eternity.
Thank you!! That is so sweet! |
cappy1277 | Definitely a big congratulations is in order!! I wish you the best of luck! ❤❤❤❤ |
hannaramaa | i remember when you posted you'd found the one!! I was like "Psh, whatever." Not because I didn't believe you, but I wrestle with the idea of "the one." Anyways, congratulations! I love engagements. |
cappy1277 | There's a lid for every pot |
T | quote: Originally posted by cappy1277: There's a lid for every pot
adorable quote! LOL |